Narcissism in Relationships: Causes, Challenges, and Potential Solutions

In this episode of Coached Soul, host Steve Hudgins is joined by veteran therapist Bowden McElroy to explore the intricacies of narcissistic personality disorder. With over forty years of experience, Bowden clarifies the misconceptions surrounding narcissism, highlighting its roots in childhood experiences and how it is distinct from mere selfishness.

Listeners are guided through the nuances of how narcissistic traits are expressed differently in men and women and the societal misuse of the term. The discussion addresses the challenges in relationships affected by narcissism, particularly in marriages, and considers the potential for positive change.

Steve and Bowden delve into the true signs of narcissism and examine why it is predominantly diagnosed in men while clarifying its overlap with borderline traits in women. They explore the reluctance of some professionals to work with narcissistic individuals and offer strategies for managing such relationships effectively.

This episode provides valuable insights into understanding narcissistic personality disorder and offers practical guidance for those seeking to improve relationships affected by it. Tune in for a thoughtful examination of this complex topic.

Key Moments: 

 

01:10 Exploring Narcissism: Expert Insights

03:58 Raising a Narcissistic Child

06:28 Borderline Personality Disorder Explained

11:07 Narcissistic Generosity Dilemma

16:01 Cultivating Spiritual and Emotional Maturity

17:53 "Marriage: Beyond Surface Harmony"

22:18 Marriage Counseling: Individuation Over Communication

24:06 "Challenges in Treating Narcissism"

 

About the guest: 

Bowden McElroy is a licensed professional counselor who has been in the mental health field for over 40 years.

He works with adults, teens, and children in individual, marital, and family therapy. Part of that work includes teaching workshops and seminars on various topics. He helps people to get unstuck. When the difference between where you want to be and where you think you are in life seems huge, he helps people overcome obstacles and achieve their goals.

How to connect Bowden: https://bowdenmcelroy.com/

About Coached Soul: 

 

Coached Soul is an empowering podcast hosted by Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through interviews with guests who have overcome significant challenges. Coached Soul is not just a podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life.

 

For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/